Praise GOD and all of his goodness!!! He has so given to me. He has shown me

the evilness of frenemies, (An enemy disguised as a friend) and wow, what a reality when you see people as they really are and you really learn who your true friends are! Its amazing how people get focused on ruining your life, reputation, finance and your future.. Its the most evil

thing I have ever seen, People don't just turn into another person at 57

I am still me and my real friends know who I am!!  REAL FRIENDS!

I have been a GIVER ALL MY LIFE!!!!

Some PEOPLE SHOULD MIND THEIR OWN DAMN BUSINESS don't you think.

Divorce is a hard hard time for the partys involved, but then people you thought were your friends think its their divorce too, but I realized

when they gave him $400.00 to have me removed from my house so I would not be totally broke, they were my FRENEMIES..

Duh was that a sign or what.. A real friend would have talked him out of it..

I learned from that moment they weren't my friends.

Unreal life experience in my life.

One night I had a dream that I went to their house for a party. I dream't

that I was so discusted in the phonyness that I left the party without

saying good bye. The next morning I told my friend who came to visit me

about my dream, and how i was discusted and left..

Ha then I went and checked my email, and there was to my

surprise an email from the frenemy.

I said to my friend GOD is so good, he warned me the night before,

her email was so fake, backstabbing my husband and missed me. BULL

But I so Thank GOD because we both have watched her for year

try to destroy people, i even remember her stealing income from a single mom of 2 by stealing her business.. Thats I think when I really

truly realized how EVIL she is.. GOD knows he warned me in a dream..

But again its nice to know who your

true friends are and I am so lucky because I have so so so many real friends.

For 3 months I had lived in that ol 5th wheel we had, It leaked in 3 places and I had to put a huge tarp ontop of it.  Thanks to my cousins, they let me park on my aunt and uncles property, that has full hook ups.  I lived in record breaking cold in there, and thank God for my doggies at nite to keep my feet warm! We survived the record breaking cold winter of 2009 - 2010.

Being booted from my own home by the police with a restraining order and told never to come back, I had to leave my home of 20 yrs without being able to pack up my stuff. Was givin $400.00 and that was that!   It was the day before Thanksgiving 2009, so I was homeless on Thanksgiving!!!

Can you imagine your husband of 20 yrs going and lieing to police and having them come and throw you out of your own home like your a criminal!! I eventally found out that he went to the police 4 times in 20 yrs about me.. wow Some people just really cross the line, we call it NO CLASS!!!

No one I tell the frenemy story to can believe of her envolvement in

the (LETS DESTORY ME!!) What a horrible thing to do to anyone let

alone a 57 yr old woman with nothing!!! How can people be so evil!!

Its strange because now that its over, people say to me, "I never really

liked her", or "I wanted to warn you about her".

I will say, God gave me the strength to go, I left with the only belief in my heart that GOD would take care of me, Not one day did I cry!!!

Many good things have happened, and life is looking so good, I thank God everyday for what he has done for me and for all the people that have

been there for me during all this. I THANK GOD FOR ALL THE LOVE I AM ABLE TO GIVE AND ALL THE LOVE I AM RECEIVING!!!!  LIFE IS GOOD!!!

After talking to an ol friend, who had talked to the man who served restraining order on me, I had to remind her, he never had to make any life changes, he had to call in reinforcement troups (police) to throw his wife out. he still had his home, job and went on like nothing happpen.. he lived his life without interruption!!!! I am the one who lived life interupted..

Well it all ended in court. My friends had been preparing me for

court and the night before, they called me and said" what u want may not be the outcome, but atleast you put up a fight." I said, GOD has been so good

to me, why would he stop now. I totally prayed for justice, and fairness.

And the outcome was just that! The lies blew me away!!

But I know GOD is on my side, I see that everyday of my life in this year of 2010!! I witness daily what GOD has done for me.

One word I now realize I have dealt with for years is JEALOUSY,

I never did see it, because I guess I didnt want to.

But during this really hard sad time in my life, when things were good

for me, people changed, I guess they wanted me to suffer more.

So thats where it starts, very sad to see what jealous people do!!!!

They can call me any names they want, because I know the truth,

but calling my friends names pisses me off!!!!

Call me whatever!!!!!

I didnt just turn into who my heart is, I am still me..

BLown away by FRENEMIES with much pain in my heart.

I believe the one frenemy totally ruined my ex's life and she herself is a homewrecker!! She worked both ends of the candle in the beginning

of the destruction of the marriage then she obsessed with me, TO DESTROY ME but she ended up destorying him!!! Her only experience in divorce

is BUTTING her nose into peoples business. Most people stay out

of couples marital problems, MOST!!! Most people I know dont know how

her spouse can put up with her!!!

and her name was ALL OVER MY DIVORCE.. NOW THATS SICK!!!

Be very careful of frenemies especially when you are having hard times!

Very sad!!!! But life goes on and I am not sure where I am going.

GOD is guiding me, I DO WORK FOR GOD!!!! woooooo hoooooooooooooo

GOD sent me ANGELS and they SAVED MY LIFE!!!

THANK YOU GOD!!!!!

GOD DOES LOVE US ALL!!!! even if you are a frenemy!!!

2 yrs later!!!

It takes a while for reality too set in, now the picture is so so clear, there was really

one person who pushed my marriage to destruction, she manipulated both me and my

ex, he took her advise totally and was totally destroyed,

Good thing my new friends saw her colors from the get go, and they explained to me

her evilness, I know when people are divorcing, you be a friend you dont get in the

middle, and secretly work both sides!!! My friends made it so clear, so we started

feeding her crap and bull to paint a picture for her, because we knew she was working

both sides, But it worked and she was just a stupid pawn in MY DIVORCE.. very

stupid and evil. She stold all my clothes, including a $350.00 cowgirl outfit,

Judge ordered her to give me back my clothes and cowgirl outfit, She must think

she is beyond the law, My friends wanted me to sue her for all the slandering she did,

which as a stupid person she put her slandering on emails, when my friend asked me if

I wanted to sue her, I said please NO I am so tired of lawyers,  I SHOULD HAVE!!!!

maybe would have taught her a lesson about putting her evil nose into others business.

Such a unreal story in my life, A so called friend for 9 yrs, tried to totally destroy

us both, and pretty much did the ex!!!! I hope he has realizes the damage she did

to both our lives!!! The divorce was going to happen, but she made it hell, and i felt

like i was divorcing this sick sick bitch.. might add - gay bitch!!!!! humm thousands of

dollars  it cost for this divorce, what were her motives? I was moving on, lol 

and she  got my ex a totally unexperienced lawyer and I had

the best in town., humm what did she do to my ex, besides costing him thousands

of dollars and advising him not to settle, at 2 settlement hearings, got him to lie about something my grandmother gave me, to hear him flat lie in court blew me away.. big time.

hummm, I hope he has realizes this evil woman is not his friend, she is not

anyones friends, I watched her for years try and destroy many many people,,

wow is all i can say, I guess I never got away from her as a friend is because

I worried how she would try and destroy me.. and man did she ever give it one hell

of a shot!!!!!!!!!!!!! So my life is great, I am very very HAPPY... sad when I look

back and see what people are in my life, I AM SURROUNDING MY SELF WITH

GOOD PEOPLE, PEOPLE THAT LOVE GOD, AND DONT GO AROUND HURTING

PEOPLE, I refuse to let people in my life that hurt or are mean to people,

My ex let his family be rude to me for 20 yrs, never defended me because I know

a dark secret.. That is so real. And its not my fault its real.. thats a whole other chapter,

and i out of there.. The victim to the secret is back in my life and when she heard how i was treated for 20 yrs she was pissed big time and wanted to make some calls.  I said no

need i out of there and they will never treat me rude again..   so watch out for

FRENEMIES, they so pretend to be your friend, and believe me, they will try and

destroy you in a blink of an eye... SURROUND YOURSELF WITH GOOD PEOPLE

fortunately for me only 2 of my so called friends turned against me, GOOD RIDENCE!!!

I forgive them, but THANK GOD THEY OUT OF MY LIFE AND WILL

NEVER ENTER AGAIN!!!!!! PRAISE GOD!!! he loves me so so much he

showed me the truth!!!!!

People who talk crap about everyone, believe me they are talking

crap about you!!!!!!